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survival and marriage in relationships

In order to survive marriage, you would like to understand what your priorities are first. Work should never be your first priority, although your parents might say so otherwise. Your spouse should always come first. After all, they are the person that shares the home with you, cooks meals, makes extra money for your both, helps watch the kids, and be intimate from time to time.
Surviving: There are so many activities to do in marriage and at this age, usually, both people are working. This is what makes the marriage so difficult because men are not used to doing activities that a woman would be doing. for instance, most men refuse to iron their laundry or clean the bathroom. It really isn't something they would do. And forget planting flowers out in the backyard. They won't even go near the flowers.

Men are trained to work hard by their fathers and get a good education to provide for their families. They aren't the ones who can become pregnant and grow close to their chi…
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Difficulties of the first marriage

There are many difficulties when it comes to marriage. The most popular are expectations, intimacy, connection, and money. All of these topics can contribute to a problem. The husband may spend a lot of money on his gambling habits while the wife is upset and just wants him to stop. They need that money for their children.

Another example is for the woman. She is often too busy doing things around the house that she becomes stressed and sex is the last thing on her mind. However, the husband highly values intimacy and without it, he may feel as if he is growing apart from his wife.

You see, it's all the little things that will add up to cause a husband and wife to start arguing. They may be resentful toward one another and not want to work things out with each other. Some may try but sometimes the other person isn't as cooperative as they are. This is

what makes relationships so difficult. Here are the four difficulties when it comes to marriage:
Expectations: The wife has su…

Learn To Let Go Of The Past

People tend to get so wrapped up in their past that moving forward is a daunting task. A mentor once said, “You need to be proud of yourself to be proud of somebody else .” Truer words were never spoken. It’s painful to one day find yourself alone and realize this when it’s too late.
Forget It The way a person deals with life in the present is a result of the life they once led in the past. This applies to relationships. If you find yourself constantly going from one boyfriend/girlfriend to another, then it is likely that you are going about relationships all wrong. Most people who do not succeed in relationships are the ones who still cling to their past.

Let me give you an example. You meet a person you have chemistry with. You two start dating and decide to have a relationship. Once in a real relationship, you start getting scared that what happened in your past will happen again. You might have been cheated on or lied to or was once abused. For no apparent reason, none of that wa…

Figure Out If You Truly Want Your Ex Back

Do you remember one of the three essential questions that you asked yourself at the start of this book? Do you still love your ex? You’re probably thinking that if you answer yes to that question it means you get to skip this chapter. But actually, that’s not the case at all. Although relationships are one of the grayer areas of life, that’s not to say there are no right and wrong reasons for getting your ex back.
Time To Think Some relationships are destined to last and be better the second or third time around. However, there are also relationships which are doomed from the start or are best left and forgotten in the past. In this chapter, you get to figure out if your reasons for wanting to reconcile shall help – or hurt – your chances of getting your ex back.
You Still Love Your Ex That’s probably the best reason to try getting your ex back. In fact, the outcome is just secondary. What matters right now is that you gave it your best shot. If it still doesn’t work out in the end, …

Don't Say You've Changed Show It

Breakups are one of the most difficult things you’ll experience in life. The pain you will feel will be unbearable to the point where the emotional pain feels like it’s becoming physical. Your heart will hurt

in a way where it seems like everything in your world will crumble. We have all gone through this at least once in our lives and though time really does heal all wounds, the experience of heartbreak will

always somehow scar you for life.


There’s a reason as to why relationships end. It can never just be because there’s no more love and that the happiness is gone. Something is not working out. It could be numerous fights and arguments, promises being broken, continuous nagging, lying, lack of respect, etc. The physical and emotional needs of both people in a relationship need to be met in order for things to work out, otherwise it will all go downhill from there.

But what if you’re the one in the relationship who got dumped?

What if you didn’t even see it coming?

What if yo…

Don't Play Games With Your Love

Get your ex back with these simple yet effective tips. It’s never easy when you lose your loved one, especially when you have been together for a very long time. If this has just happened, you may end up looking for another that could serve as the cover or you might do everything in your power to get your loved one back as soon as possible. In case you are the one that wants to have your loved one back, then this article shall aid you in your quest to get your ex back.
Be Serious In the event that you and your partner are just like everybody else fooling around and playing games then it’s no surprise that you separated. This is often a very common experience for several today men having multiple girlfriends and vice versa. Studies have shown that when couples engage during this quiet relationship they're going to not last together for long.
Don’t Play Games Now if you want to have a second chance out of the relationship you had with your ex, you must make sure that you do not pla…

Don't Beg

The last time that begging and pestering successfully worked in your favor was most probably with your loving parents, and of course, you had to be really young then. When you grew older, your parents became immune to your begging antics, not to mention that they had already mastered the art of saying ‘no’ to you.
Begging Will Get You Nowhere The thought of begging never again crossed your mind until the day you broke up with your ex; you let go of your pride and went groveling hoping that she would have pity on you and take you back. Begging only creates problems for both of you in the future and it is better to give up while you are still ahead and is considered to be the bane of all reconciliations.
Your Ex will Think Of You As A Charity Case In layman’s language, begging is defined as asking for something as a favor or a gift; a good hint as to why begging is one of the worst ways of getting your ex back. Why would you want your ex to do you the favor of taking you back; it makes…