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Learn To Let Go Of The Past

People tend to get so wrapped up in their past that moving forward is a daunting task. A mentor once said, “You need to be proud of yourself to be proud of somebody else .” Truer words were never spoken. It’s painful to one day find yourself alone and realize this when it’s too late.
Forget It The way a person deals with life in the present is a result of the life they once led in the past. This applies to relationships. If you find yourself constantly going from one boyfriend/girlfriend to another, then it is likely that you are going about relationships all wrong. Most people who do not succeed in relationships are the ones who still cling to their past.

Let me give you an example. You meet a person you have chemistry with. You two start dating and decide to have a relationship. Once in a real relationship, you start getting scared that what happened in your past will happen again. You might have been cheated on or lied to or was once abused. For no apparent reason, none of that wa…

Figure Out If You Truly Want Your Ex Back

Do you remember one of the three essential questions that you asked yourself at the start of this book? Do you still love your ex? You’re probably thinking that if you answer yes to that question it means you get to skip this chapter. But actually, that’s not the case at all. Although relationships are one of the grayer areas of life, that’s not to say there are no right and wrong reasons for getting your ex back.
Time To Think Some relationships are destined to last and be better the second or third time around. However, there are also relationships which are doomed from the start or are best left and forgotten in the past. In this chapter, you get to figure out if your reasons for wanting to reconcile shall help – or hurt – your chances of getting your ex back.
You Still Love Your Ex That’s probably the best reason to try getting your ex back. In fact, the outcome is just secondary. What matters right now is that you gave it your best shot. If it still doesn’t work out in the end, …

Don't Say You've Changed Show It

Breakups are one of the most difficult things you’ll experience in life. The pain you will feel will be unbearable to the point where the emotional pain feels like it’s becoming physical. Your heart will hurt

in a way where it seems like everything in your world will crumble. We have all gone through this at least once in our lives and though time really does heal all wounds, the experience of heartbreak will

always somehow scar you for life.

Faith

There’s a reason as to why relationships end. It can never just be because there’s no more love and that the happiness is gone. Something is not working out. It could be numerous fights and arguments, promises being broken, continuous nagging, lying, lack of respect, etc. The physical and emotional needs of both people in a relationship need to be met in order for things to work out, otherwise it will all go downhill from there.

But what if you’re the one in the relationship who got dumped?

What if you didn’t even see it coming?

What if yo…

Don't Play Games With Your Love

Get your ex back with these simple yet effective tips. It’s never easy when you lose your loved one, especially when you have been together for a very long time. If this has just happened, you may end up looking for another that could serve as the cover or you might do everything in your power to get your loved one back as soon as possible. In case you are the one that wants to have your loved one back, then this article shall aid you in your quest to get your ex back.
Be Serious In the event that you and your partner are just like everybody else fooling around and playing games then it’s no surprise that you separated. This is often a very common experience for several today men having multiple girlfriends and vice versa. Studies have shown that when couples engage during this quiet relationship they're going to not last together for long.
Don’t Play Games Now if you want to have a second chance out of the relationship you had with your ex, you must make sure that you do not pla…

Don't Beg

The last time that begging and pestering successfully worked in your favor was most probably with your loving parents, and of course, you had to be really young then. When you grew older, your parents became immune to your begging antics, not to mention that they had already mastered the art of saying ‘no’ to you.
Begging Will Get You Nowhere The thought of begging never again crossed your mind until the day you broke up with your ex; you let go of your pride and went groveling hoping that she would have pity on you and take you back. Begging only creates problems for both of you in the future and it is better to give up while you are still ahead and is considered to be the bane of all reconciliations.
Your Ex will Think Of You As A Charity Case In layman’s language, begging is defined as asking for something as a favor or a gift; a good hint as to why begging is one of the worst ways of getting your ex back. Why would you want your ex to do you the favor of taking you back; it makes…

The Art Of Apologizing

There are a lot of jokes that people make about their exes but it is worthy to note that these jokes are half meant. Indeed there are many individuals that point at each other as well as outside ‘forces’ that break up their relationships. However, these jokes and external ‘forces’ should never be an excuse to break up them with their partners in life, not to mention the persons they love the most. Making The Perfect Apology For You To Win Your Ex Back  Initially, when lovers break up, there is that feeling of negativity as well as positivity that circles around them. Some might even say that there are greener pastures that they can take and that they regret meeting the person they recently broke up with.
However, at some point, they will realize how valuable the person they left is and end up begging their ex to take them back. That’s why it does not come as a surprise when they do everything in their power to rekindle their love for each other.
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What Caused The Break-Up

Cause and effect are some of the most commonly used methods for solving problems. Certainly, breakups are no exception. No matter what kind of problem you’re dealing with, identifying its nature is always the best first step to take. In the case of your breakup, you should start by determining its cause. You may want to try writing it down for future reference. Factors To Consider When Determining The Cause Of A Breakup Granted, that subheading sounds more sort of a section title for a thesis paper, but that’s an honest thing. Dissecting a failed relationship is a painful process, but you would like to seek out how to maneuver on from what happened – to see the bigger picture and learn from your mistakes to get your ex back…for good. Honesty This is the make-or-break factor when determining the explanation for a break-up. When emotions are running high and you’re too close to the situation, it’s hard, to be honest, and objective about what happened. Keep in mind that understanding wh…

How Are Your Actions Contributing To The Problems

Divorce is usually an already such a negative situation to contemplate without the added ingredient of one party making it as difficult as possible. When this occurs, the actual process of divorce can be long and painful and the consequences almost always hard to recover from mentally and physically.

Therefore each person should be aware of their actions that could be negatively contributing to enhancing an already difficult situation.

If there is clear evidence of such behavioral patterns, then the party concerned should be encouraged to seek another form of releasing the anger and disappointment such as counseling sessions or therapy.

Ideally, both parties should be encouraged to work together towards a more amicable ending of the relationship; however, this is almost always easier said than done.

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When feelings are hurt and betrayal is the main element evident, the party that feels wronged will usually seek ways to create even further prob…

A divorce counseling was provided

Counseling is another requirement that should be explored and exhausted before any court proceedings will be allowed to be proceeded upon in terms of filing for divorce. In most cases, there are a lot of avenues that would have to be explored before any court would be willing to hear a case that is requesting the action of divorce to be initiated.

Ideally and commonly categorized as a tool to help save a marriage and stopping it from heading to the divorce courts, marriage counseling can also be used to facilitate a more peaceful and speedy way of going through the divorce proceedings while attempting to limit the impact of negativity on both parties and any other connecting elements that would require significant adjustments because of the divorce.

Strange as it may seem, sometimes these counseling sessions will help the couple who are really focused on divorce, to work out issues in a calm and less defensive manner, thus facilitating a higher level of calmness and civility within t…

How to advice on divorce

Counseling is another requirement that should be explored and exhausted before any court proceedings will be allowed to be proceeded upon in terms of filing for divorce. In most cases there are a lot of avenues that would have to be explored before any court would be willing to hear a case that is requesting for the action of divorce to be initiated.
One Way Ideally and commonly categorized as a tool to help save a marriage and stopping it from heading to the divorce courts, marriage counseling can also be used to facilitate a more peaceful and speedy way of going through the divorce proceedings while attempting to limit the impact of negativity on both parties and any other connecting elements that would require significant adjustments because of the divorce.

Strange as it may seem, sometimes these counseling sessions will help the couple who are really focused on divorce, to work out issues in a calm and less defensive manner, thus facilitating a higher level of calmness and civili…

Divorce Basics

Before contemplating a divorce option, both parties should ideally exhaust all other options to make sure the connection isn't longer salvageable, and only then should the thought of divorce entertained. Even then divorce isn't something which will be initiated easily as there are quite a few requirements that ought to be adhered to before such proceedings can happen.
The Basics The following are a number of the weather that might need to be considered and understood because of the basis of divorce:

Before most divorce proceedings are often initiated, most legal resources would want the couple to point out that they need to exhaust all other means of trying to figure things out with the intention of keeping the relationship. These would come with sessions of counseling, the intervention of both legal and friendly sources to assist put the marriage back on the positive road and the other help to try and keep the wedding from actual divorce.

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Are You Staying Just For The Children

There are a lot of people that stay in a bad marriage for the sake of the children. This has its own advantages and disadvantages, but if not handled well the negative impact that is usually caused by this disharmonious feelings within the marriage framework will end up causing more damage than good to all those involved.
The Kids? Staying in a bad marriage, for the sake of the kids can be worse than actually going ahead and filing for divorce. The first style keeps everyone together but in a rather stressful environment of coexistence, while the latter contemplates the possibility of a clean and the complete break between the couple with efforts to limit the negative impact this break will make on the children.

Sometimes staying in a bad marriage can have a lot of negative consequences that would be rather hard to live with, as these would eventually, add to the already dire mental and physical situation the

marriage is in and in most cases would not be very healthy for the children…

Are There Emotional Wounds That Won’t Heal?

Any sane person would not want to contemplate divorce, especially if there is a possibility of saving the marriage. However for some the idea of divorce is inevitable and thus requires the individual to be prepared both mentally and physically for the almost always traumatic and upsetting time ahead.
Healing For those who experience profound pain during this period, it may be rather hard to get over this pain for quite some time and this leaves the “injured” party feeling lost and certainly alone.

There is a percentage of people who never recover from the trauma of divorce and this can sometimes lead to bitterness and anger. However with all the various support groups and therapist services available today, the individual going through such an unpleasant experience can now seek the necessary help to make this transition period more manageable and acceptable.

The wounds that would most likely cause a significant percentage of pain that would most likely not heal or in the best of circu…

Abuse Should Never Be Allowed

In some cases, divorce becomes the only recourse to seek and one of the main contributing factors that would call for such drastic measures would be the existence of abuse within the framework of the marriage. When there is any sign of abuse having to be endured and this is supported with relevant and indisputable evidence, then the divorce proceeding should and could be contemplated without much problems.
No Way However, it should be noted that in almost all cases the onus would have to be on the individual in question to prove without any doubt that there is some level of abuse currently having to be endured within the framework of the existing marriage circumstances.

This abuse does not necessarily only have to be of the physical kind, as mental abuse is also considered to be just as destructive and its consequences difficult to live down or adjust too.

Physical abuse is easier to identify and support with very clear and proper evidence, however in comparison, mental abuse can be …